I don't get it, If I love someone I will prove it to him and I'll try no matter what.
Most Helpful Guy
Because I don't break up someone for no reason. Or a stupid reason.
Some people, you sound like one of them, think you can throw a hand grenade into a relationship, blow everything up, and then just say "Well, rebuild it" or "Undo!" or "Make that not have happened."
Well that's not how the world works. If you break up, you've broken up with someone. If you dump someone, you can never do so in the expectation that they will come crawling back to you to get back together again.1
Most Helpful Girl
Wait, so do you mean that your partner is the one dumping you? Or the other way around? Because if you mean the other way around it doesn't make any sense. I would never break up with someone I still loved.
If you mean that I'm the one getting dumped, then it's quite obvious isn't it? I can't force someone to like me. If he doesn't like me anymore there's pretty much nothing I can do about that. I'm not going to start begging him to take me back or try to change myself just to try to make him interested in me again. If he doesn't like me for me, then that's that. I don't want to try to change his decision. I can't force him to do anything.
I also have my pride. Begging and pleading an ex to take you back is simply pathetic. Or trying to change for them. It's just not genuine, and it's not someone with a healthy mind should do. Moving on is hard, and realizing that your partner doesn't love you anymore is a hard pill to swallow. But it's a fact of life. The healing process will be much easier if you have nothing to be ashamed of and if you try your hardest to just go with the flow.1