Hi bff female didn't invite me to husbands bday. Her mom came from NY, she had advise to take me out, due to her mom being at her home she doesn't have time, which is understandable... but now she gets upset if I message her... normally we would take bus after work... now we don't. She takes bus ride with mom. She just over the place... I feel like I'm a compromise. Pls note we r grown as women. What would u do.