my best friend of 8 years and boyfriend of 4 years and i parted ways last year it was something neither of us wanted but circumstances made it impossible to be together. We just seemed to have this connection. Our hearts understood each other and we always seemed honest with each other and had great fun together. I just can not seem to get over it or move on no matter how hard i try. I stay very busy but my mind always is triggered by something and i end up thinking about him. I get so angry with myself because I'm sure he's completely over it and has moved on and probably never thinks of me.
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I've had similar situation, but it's not about me it's about you.
What is possibly going on is the love you once had is no longer besides you, the routines and the constant communication between you two is gone. That means something empty inside of you, something that you have to routine out of. Your body and mind is still used to thinking of your beloved person. All this can only be healed with time. Time is your enemy and your friend, be patient and you'll prosper in much better reality...
What he thinks about you no longer matters, because it's stopped, you're not together for a reason and that reason is why you are no longer with each other. I know it can be very hard at times not to think about the person, even when you feel bad, sick or weak is the worst times. Now what matters is you knowing it's just your mind that's fucking with you. Your brain is still used to a person that can give you all that closure you were used to... You need to do whatever you want to do, talk about it, make your body tired so you can sleep good at night and find something that can distract you to get by with time.0