Me and my boyfriend were dating for a year and 4 months. We broke up and I found out that he got me pregnant ( I aborted the baby) he didn’t give me a valid reason to break up, he didn’t even come to the abortion clinic with me ( I am 15 years old ), he treats me like shit. I don’t know where I messed up or if I did something to him. I was being a good girlfriend in my own eyes, texting him back, making sure he is good, helping him with everything but I don't know if I wasn’t good enough for him or something like that. Where did I go wrong?
Most Helpful Guy
These are the mistakes we make in life which teach us what we should never do in life. Look, guys at that age aren't enough to handle a relationship. Most aren't. I wasn't. And when you add sex in the mix, you're giving him all that he wants and he has nothing to work for or nothing driving him to be good anymore. Guys just really want sex. That's all. The love is a bonus but it's not everything. That's the hard cold truth. And I don't know how you ended up getting pregnant but you need to have safe sex to avoid pregnancy and STIs. So just be careful about your choices doll.1
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Most Helpful Girl
You done nothing wrong honey. I'm 31and I can tell you he is just an arsehole. Lots of people in the world like him. You sound lovely and nice with a good heart. Take care of it, and don't let fuckers treat you like that. I'm sorry this has happened to you, you don't deserve this and I repeat, none of this is your fault1