Most Helpful Girl
Don't stop being nice! Nice guys might have to wait a long time to find the right girl, but when they do, its much better than if they we're mean guys who disrespect and objectify girls. Just wait and you'll find the girl of your dreams.0
Most Helpful Guy
This always happens when you don't separate your intentions with your actions.
For example a girl that just had a break up you like her and want to be with her.
Nice guy that finish last: becomes her best friend, doesn't make a move and gets friendzone, then feel bad when another guy takes her.
Smart guy: be there for her, but when the time is right make the move and be confident, be that person who would make that girl forget about his ex, and keep her.
In both situations you were nice, but the outcome was different, why because you know what you wanted and had what it takes to get it.
You don't need to stop been a nice guy, you just have to make sure you know when to stop been the nice guy and focus on what you want. Otherwise you will always please others and then please yourself.1