Last year things happened and my big brother and his wife ended up hating me. Last month I got sick of not having my big brother to talk to, not being able to see my dad if he was there, and not being able to see my brothers daughter. So I wrote them a letter and wrote to them on facebook and myspace, telling them that I am sorry and I miss talking to them, and I know things will never be the same as they were but I wanted to fix things at least some what, and gave them my number . Well my brother finally texted me last week and asked me how things were going, his wife texted me last night and acted like nothing ever happened, and like we've been friends this entire time. I know what I did might not have been the best answer and I didn't really think about it at the time, but what he did is what caused me to do what I did. In away I think it's only fair, but I wish I never done it. I never thought I would need my big brothers help with some of my issues but I ended up needing his help and not having it... I just want to know how many people think I did the right thing by being the stronger person by making the first move to fix things? I know I could have handled things differently but I made a mistake, in some peoples eyes I did the right thing, but the right thing for one person isn't always right for another. In my case the right thing turned out to be the biggest mistake I have made so far and I have made a lot of big mistakes. I ended up paying for the mistake I made and now I want to fix things with my brother, because I now understand I might need him someday and might not have him.
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You did the right thing.0