So my boyfriend after a year broke up with me because he said "he couldn't give me what I deserve". He wasn't someone who put in a lot of effort and occasionally I would bring it up and compromise with him to meet both our needs. He really grounded me and helped me be a better person. I'm still not over him and he goes away on deployment soon, and a lot can change in 6 months. There's a possibility he may want to see where we go when he gets back but there's so much uncertainty. Do I accept that we aren't together and move on? Or do I just look after myself until he gets back and hope that we can be together again?
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If you're not actually together there are no limits. Not saying you should go out looking. However if an opportunity with someone else presents itself take the chance. If he can't give you what you need now how will he do it later? Especially since you were willing to compromise0
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