I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and eight months. I've always been a really shy girl never had a boyfriend so of course when my time would come to date I would be totally lost about what to do same for my boyfriend as well we are each others first relationship. Anyway we started dating and I've never been all lovey dovey with him because I'm just not that type of person. I guess after a while he started getting tired of it and he told that for him to stop hurting himself he would stop being loving towards me since I give him nothing in return. I understand how he feels and I completely get that it's my fault why he's hurting. Also one thing he gets depressed at random times which makes him get moody and not talk to me for a few days and he keeps telling me he wants to kill himself. So I'm scared that if I break up with him he'll end up killing himself so I don't know what to do. Thank you for taking your time to read this.
Most Helpful Guy
It sounds like he needs something that you don't naturally provide. So in that aspect, which seems to be an important one, you are not a good fit. Since this might be an important cornerstone to a happy relationship for your boyfriend, maybe there's a way to express that to him so he could understand that you're both just fundamentally different in that way and that there are others that could naturally fit him better. If the relationship is making you unhappy, that's the biggest issue you should figure out. If you think you could be happier else where and there's no way to find a balance that works, perhaps you should break up. His actions are not your responsibility, but since care about how he'd take receiving this, you should try to be there for him as you might be right to be concerned with him doing something drastic. You can't be held hostage in a relationship that might be possibly making you unhappy just because of how he'd react if you left, and if he loves you he should realise this fact. Still, I'd try to be there for him as he sounds like he needs some help.0
Most Helpful Girl
Break up with him that's an abusive relationship, you should be with someone because you want to not because you're being forced to1