Thank you for your MHO vote :)
I am woried, that this will be the case for her, I think she will have hope and that eventually will forbid me and here from being in a new relationship no?
Another problem is that you will get into a new relationship and the new lady will be very suspicious of you remaining "friends" with a former lover. Not every woman would be suspicious or jealous in those circumstances, but many would be.
My boyfriend of 7 months was with a girl about 2 years ago and they were only together for 2 months. She ended it and they have managed to stay friends. He was going through a hard time in his personal life at the time and even after the relationship ended she supported him with his issue as a friend. I guess that's why they have stayed friends. At first I was a little uncomfortable about it but it really is a platonic friendship. He has shown me the messages they have sent to each other as they do keep in touch and send each other the occasional text. They don't ever meet up physically though. Some of the messages show him asking her if she would like to meet me etc so I know there is nothing shady going on. She is also on his Facebook and every time he posts a picture of us up together she always gives it a thumbs up. She seems really happy for him that he has found me. I'm not worried about their friendship at all, not anymore. I haven't met her yet however.
@Lou1973 1. Nor every girlfriend is as understanding as you appear to be.2. Not every ex-girlfriend is content to forever remain an ex-girlfriend. It sounds like you have the perfect combination of events to make this happen.
Well said. Spot on.
One of my ex girlfriend is great friend... she remained as one
What if the other person still have feelings? Is it still possible or I should even terminate the friendship meaning making it very casual?
is it you who has feelings still? friendship is out of the question. you will only hurt yourself more and more. for now, distance yourself from her to get over her totally. do not use friendship as an excuse just to be close to her or for a reconciliation.
@ Pinay... hope the above message isn't for me
@Deeppurple sorry it's for @guy230007
No it's her who I am sure still have feelings, we were close friends before and now maybe we could do it again still trying to figure this out.
what do you plan to do it?
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That is almost my case, how is it going now could you please tell some details
Sure. Everything is back to how it was before we dated. Well, almost. We used to cuddle while watching movies and stuff before. Since we broke up we don't do that anymore. I don't know if she still would or wants to, but I don't want to make her uncomfortable or give her the wrong idea, so I don't ask. But everything else is the same. We text almost daily, we give each other advice and talk about everything. She even tells me about the dates she goes on.For maybe a month after we split it was a little weird. I think we were both feeling it out and reestablishing boundaries. But once that was over, it was almost like we'd never dated.Is there anything specific you wanted to know that I missed?
Thank you very much for your input, i just have some questions, For how long did you date, and was your relationship deep or just casual as they say?