Okay. I met this chick over the summer on a cruise. We live 3 states away and tried to do the long distance. Things were good for about 2 months then she went cold over night. I asked what was wrong and she said” I don’t think it’s going to work since ur so far away” and she will not reply to any of my messages. I waited a week and tried to call her and she didn’t not answer. I texted her to see how she was and she never responded. She may have a new guy. I don't know. But why could she be so cold and selfish?