I like your comparison to a horse..Yeah I guess its not a good idea..And if you don't get together with anyone?
"And if you don't get together with anyone?" sounds like post break-up self-pity. Of course there will be others. You will fall in and out of love a few times yet, my dear.
Thanks.. I guess it is self pity..
It's normal. Cheer up and move on - i think if you stay friends with your ex it just sort of prolongs the negative feelings.
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And is it bad to still be in love and be friends?
In my personal experience, which I'm going through now, yes. It is bad to remain friends because I still love her, but we separated bc we know it will never work out. Being friends just isn't possible. It's too painful for both of us. If you think there may be a chance of rekindling the relationship, being friends might not be a bad thing. You can stay in each other's lives so the relationship remains to exist in some level. You just have to be honest with yourself and make the decision with your head and not your heart.
I don't want to be with him because I'm afraid he'll hurt me again but I can't stay away... I'm not sure if it's good for me...
Trust your instincts. They're usually right. Only Time will allow you to eventually escape those feelings of dependency. Give it time... you'll soon realize you don't need him, and won't want him.
But you have to cut off all contact
And that's where the friendship ends?
Not neccessarily. Some people dont mind their significant others being friends with an ex. Others dont. Thats something you and your significant other would have to discuss
A shot but*
All true and good points
Haha true x