Most Helpful Guy
Maybe you can't heal yourself maybe you need somebody to talk to I don't believe that the couch trip is the answer for very many things in life but something like that talking about it can be all the difference in the world and abusive relationships are a serious subject and probably worth a little psycho babble so it doesn't haunt you for the rest of your life
Most Helpful Girl
you can't just heal and move on in a few weeks.. take your time..
keep yourself busy, find what motivates you and make goals accordingly, focus on those goals and find happiness being single.
spend time with friends and family. just don't rush into another relationship, find what makes you happy without having to be with a guy.