My boyfriend and I have broken up before in the past and I’ve been devastated. He’s been treating me really shit recently but I’ve been scared to end it because I didn’t want that feeling of heartbrokeness again. The other day though he ended it, I asked him if he was adamant because he always ends it and then comes running back and he said he was sure this time. He was being really cold, and acting like he didn’t care about me at all. It stung a bit and when I left him I cried for about an hour but then I just stopped. I woke up this morning and I don’t feel sad, I just feel kind of lost and lonely like I’m not sure what to do now. I’ve blocked him off everything and Im not too bothered about never seeing him again. I don’t understand as every other time I’ve been constantly crying my eyes out and this time it’s like I don’t care. Maybe it’s because he was like a completely different person when I saw him the other day or maybe it hasn’t registered in my mind yet that it’s properly over? Do you think I’ll start feeling sad in a few days or something, I hope not but I’m scared of getting that horrible heartbroken feeling in a few days.
My boyfriend broke up with me but I’m not sad?
What Guys Said 3
As it's happened before, you may just have mentally moved on from him.
Not before time, by the sounds of it...0
Smart move girl now enjoy being single for a while and get ur head and motions in gear and move on1
It sounds to me like you realized you have self worth and shouldn't settle on someone who doesn't pay you the attention and affection you deserve.0
What Girls Said 1
It seems like this is a good sign. Start moving forward and acting single and go out. I will bet everything that the guy will come back and want to be together again. Do not not do it. If he is acting like this now it will only get worse later.0
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