Or have you decided that you want to remain Single indefinitely already?
If you did, then you're welcome! Maybe we are on the same team or the same boat? LOL
Have any of you feel that relationships, dating, etc. really just don't make a whole lot of sense to you? Or that you feel it really does not matter at all to you anymore?
I mean I really don't think any of us actually "need" a relationship, and since no relationship is ever guaranteed to last, or last long or last forever anyway. It's just one of those things where "your mileage may vary".
If you are somebody that haven't made up your mind yet but still considered it, is there something holding you back? Or is it because you still want to keep trying and see if you end up in a relationship or get at least a date?
Most Helpful Girl
I haven't decided yet, but that's what's probably going to happen. I never had any luck when it comes to dating and I know the reason why : I'm black and I'm attracted to white guys.
So, obviously that's a recipe for disaster and it's the main reason why I'm single.
I guess I can't say that I choose to be single, it's just this problem that stops me from having a boyfriend.
Well, I also think that no one "needs" to be in a relationship, nobody dies because they're single. However, someone people like to be in relationships, they feel like it's important and others claim it makes them feel complete.
Relationships still make sense to me, even tough I've never been in one and they still matter to me.
So, even tough I have no luck with guys, I still want to see if I end up in a relationship. I just won't ask anyone out, that I can't do.
Most Helpful Guy
I used to be the "no relationships" & "MGTOW" type but that was AFTER being so invisible like a ghost 👻 to the women and girls.
Which has led me to being involuntarily celibate.
And because of the fact, that no girl ever really liked me even as a friend, Me being a kissless virgin, who never had a girlfriend and has been invisible to the opposite sex, it has only turned out to be for me a 22 year old virgin, who never had those things in his life and thus fits the meaning of being single-for-life.
It's not like i have chosen it but it is what it is.
I'm still open to relationships if i get lucky one day because it's coping as you said. Those hormones of mine cause me unrest until i satisfy those needs of mine (being intimate with women). But I'm sure, that i won't bring any more humans into this dominated and enslaved world.
Anyway as you said it's as important as we see it is. For me specifically i like to live in calmness and peace. I can get that with the right woman or if not then at least i always have porn and fleshlight ready.
I sure wish it didn't matter to me but nature knows how to punish the celibate.2