I married my high school sweetheart at 18. By 19 we had a baby girl and two years later we welcomed our baby boy. Marriage has always been a struggle for us. His family hates me, we have nothing in common, trust has been betrayed on both parts, we have totally different ideas on parenting, etc... We nearly separated in 2010 but I ended up pregnant.
SIDE NOTE: Sex is about the only thing we do well with as a team and being on the same page. Our sex life is AMAZING!
Now we're back into the rhythm of not talking, I feel like a single mom, he doesn't share free time, just normal martial issues I suppose. But things feel forced and uncomfortable. We have different goals. I'm trying to decide if it's worth it or not. Should I leave when my salary increases?
- Stay for kids, they need both parentsVote A
- Leave as soon as you are financially ableVote B
- Don't wait to leave, you'll figure it outVote C
- This will pass, suck it up until thenVote D