Do you think I did the right thing? My ex broke up with me about a month a go, reasons being that I do not like his disrespectful friends and he wanted to date a woman who can get along with them. I was very angry and hurt, now looking back on it I'm regretting ever falling apart in pieces when he told me he wanted to break up. The thing is I'm beginning to enjoy life as a single woman and I'm meeting a lot of people who keep complimenting me. I felt very unattractive after the break up and now I don't feel angry anymore, I just feel sorry for my ex because I know he's lost a really good woman. So I sent a text simply saying to him "I forgive you" I did not receive a reply buy I just wanted him to know he's forgiven and now I'm over him and really moved on. Do you think I did the right thing?
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Ouch! The other guy is a little harsh. But good for you that your enjoying the single life. Keep moving forward, your gonna be meeting TONS of guys. Now I have to say, I don't think it was a smart move to text him for anything in the first place. Simply because since he broke up with you, what's the point in talking to someone who doesn't want to talk to you? There isn't any. The other guy is correct when he said 'he feels sorry for you that you feel the need to let him KNOW that your over him'. You gave your ex boyfriend power over you. You don't want to do that.
If you want to make it known that your ex made a mistake...SHOW him that your happy WITHOUT him. Even if you have to fake it, with him seeing that your living it up and your really happy in life...that will EAT HIM UP! I would stay away from your ex. If he wants to talk to you, let HIM text/call/email you first. If he moved on with no problem then you should do the same. If his heart ain't broken...then why should you be in pieces? You made a tiny mistake but you can make up for it by just being happy! Remember, the person who does the breaking up...ALWAYS comes back! Take care!0