Most Helpful Guy
Advice is free, and people tend not to take it. So consider the cost of being with him. Are you willing to risk another pregnancy, or an std because of this guy? He didn't cheat in you because of your abortion, that's a cheap lie in my opinion. He cheated on you because he wanted to and he thought you would accept him as a victim. He is seriously trying to mess with your mind. So, how much are you willing to follow not follow good advice?
Most Helpful Girl
Break up with him. He is blaming you for his stupid decision, saying he cheated on you because of something you thought was the best choice for you. I understand that you love him, but he is just going to keep bringing up what you did and blame you for everything he does. He is going to keep hurting you.