So, my boyfriend and I are together for one year. He started cheating on me on January and he told me about that one month ago. He said that was my fault because I aborted in December and he was completely destroyed but I couldn't do differently. So here I am, I don't know how to react, asking for help... I really love him but I feel so angry and sad about what he did with others Girls...
Most Helpful Guy
It's your body and your choice. I would have a talk with him first and if he cannot even admit that this is his fault, then breaking up with him is what you probably should do.2
Most Helpful Girl
Hey girl it's not your fault at all! It's his fault because he's the one that cheated so he is in the wrong! I'm guessing you aborted the child that was his too. But maybe it was the best decision for both of you? Cheating is not the correct way of controlling emotions. I think you need to ask him why aborting a child made him cheat and why couldn't he speak to you about it instead of cheating? Also if you had the baby and the time wasn't right maybe you guys didn't have enough money or anything etc I am just guessing here social services could of got involved and the baby could of got taken away that would have made things worse. Deffintely speak to him and then make your decision from there if you still want to be with him! I know it's easy for me to say get rid of him but sometimes it's for the best letting things go to gain better things in life.0