I can't stop thinking about him and I'm always sad if I'm not busy.
Most Helpful Guy
It takes time to heal hurt. You have to start thinking of why it happened and start understanding what made the relationship bad or end. Once you can start understanding that the breakup was probably meant to be and stop thinking about how lonely you feel right now, then you will start having closure to the whole thing. Start by accepting being by yourself and try to enjoy the benefits of being single. Get comfortable with yourself again and be happy with yourself again. You don't need someone to validate your happiness really. Once you get to this point, then it gets easier to find the right person that you want in your life and that you can't live without. Obviously this guy wasn't that person since after 3 years, something just didn't connect totally or fit perfectly for the relationship to keep going. It takes some time, but you will get to this point. Just use this last relationship to build on a better one later and understand what you want and don't want in a relationship and person.0
Most Helpful Girl
Ok i was or still is in that situation. I know how it feels. I can offer only one idea. Try and work and work and work and work till you feel like you are dead. Till you are fatigued thats the time you can stop thinking about him. You can do whatever you want you can swim you can clean your house you can do your job with a longer time. Just remember at the end of the day you must be tired. So tired that you have no more energy to think about that person. So tired to fell asleep in just a second. And till you get tired dont stop working on different things1