Most Helpful Guy
It takes time to heal hurt. You have to start thinking of why it happened and start understanding what made the relationship bad or end. Once you can start understanding that the breakup was probably meant to be and stop thinking about how lonely you feel right now, then you will start having closure to the whole thing. Start by accepting being by yourself and try to enjoy the benefits of being single. Get comfortable with yourself again and be happy with yourself again. You don't need someone to validate your happiness really. Once you get to this point, then it gets easier to find the right person that you want in your life and that you can't live without. Obviously this guy wasn't that person since after 3 years, something just didn't connect totally or fit perfectly for the relationship to keep going. It takes some time, but you will get to this point. Just use this last relationship to build on a better one later and understand what you want and don't want in a relationship and person.
Most Helpful Girl
It’s your first breakup you will heal you will meet someone else and you will be happy again. You don’t realise this when it’s the first time because you have nothing to refer back to. You will meet someone else and find how you feel now amusing I promise you this!!!
The best thing for now is allow yourself to hurt and heal but keep busy too if that helps you. Now when I break up with someone I allow myself a certain amount of time each day to think about him and hurt them I keep busy. Keeping busy all the time doesn’t allow you to heal