I realized I don't really love him, I don't really miss him but my brain is obsessed with him. I keep thinking about him, I try really hard to forget him and keep myself occupied. I deleted everything that reminds me of him, but nothing seems to work. It's been 8 months
i'm normally not a co-dependant person, this has never happened before and I genuiely don't know what to do anymore, I'm aware he doesn't share the same feelings and it would never work out.
It feels like I'm going crazy.
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well you think of the relationship as an experience in your life. its great that it happened, but its now done. you two haven't been able to work something out, or are just incompatible, and you can be happy in knowing, at least it happened. so there's no need to idolise the guy, because he's human, and you look ahead to a new, different experience if you so wish.0