On Friday my abusing ex phoned me and screamed down the phone as I had not gone to soft play with him and our son... instead I went out for the day after texting him that we should have a break as he was getting very intense... anyway he says that he is cutting me off etc and he does not want to be hurt anymore... call me a control freak for asking if he could commit a couple of hours a fortnight on the same day to his son... and many other names... so I think well that is that and today I dropped all of the stuff he has bought him (our son) outside his flat in a plastic bag... I do not want it reminding me of him anyway was this too much?
Have I done the right thing or should I have waited?
What Guys Said 1
So you are the custodial parent but you want your ex to have his and your son for a couple of hours fortnightly. That all sounds fine, assuming he's OK with it.
You dumped all the toys that he bought your son, back with your ex. I suppose that's OK. He'll need them although it sounds a little petty.
And is this a temporary break or is it over?
Where it gets tricky, for me, is that you're going to need a working relationship with him because you have a son together. And right now, I'm hearing a lot of anger on both sides.
It going to difficult and stressful unless you can get a grip on that.0
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