How to mentally destroy a guy for hurting you?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Put things in perspective. Does it hurt? Yes. Will you miss certain things about your relationship? Sure. Is it the end of the world? Absolutely not! You’ll get through this heartache. Just take it day by day. Stay in the game! If you decide to be miserable all the time, you’re bound to miss out on good opportunities. Don’t let a breakup cheat you out of living a full life. Have the urge to call your ex? Replace that urge with an alternate, incompatible behavior. Go out with some friends, rent a funny movie, whatever — just do something to keep yourself busy.

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    • Don't beat yourself up. You got through your last experience, you've learned from it, and now it's time to move forward."You'll move on and be a champion in your next endeavor as you did in your past... Life is not a success-only journey. You are going to get beat up along the way

    • Watch this video some key point for you.
      www.youtube.com/watch?v=sIhsOdD9440&t=47s

Most Helpful Girl

  • Just realize he didn't deserve you and your relationship just didn't work. Don't stoop to his level. Do you really wanna be as awful as him?

    Just throw yourself into something else, take up a new hobby, work out. Pamper yourself, get your brows done, get a pedicure, buy some red lipstick, do something small to boost your confidence and forgettttt about him. Just focus on yourself until you forget about him :)

    If you're really having trouble moving on, make a list of every tiny little thing you ever hated about the guy and focus on that every time you start to miss him.

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What Guys Said 18

  • Start by digging two graves. Yes, he hurt you. You have a right to be pissed about that. But trying to do what you're doing does no good. You're only making yourself the bad guy. Don't be that way. He'll get what's coming to him.

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  • You should not get even. There is nothing to gain by doing that. What it might make you feel better for a few seconds. The noble thing to do is forgive but not forget.

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  • By moving on with you're life and not giving a shit about him.

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  • If he’s the one who hurt you, he’s the one with the power not you. And besides you probably wouldn’t/couldn’t do what most people here are suggesting.

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  • More context required. Unanswerable question at present.

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  • At this point probably you can't. He will simply assume that you are a beach.

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  • I don't recommend it for you own sake. Moving on is better

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  • Seek mental help.

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  • Don't. You're just asking for trouble.

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  • Tell him he has a small penis..

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  • lmao

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  • Whoa no need to torture anyone

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  • Move on

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  • Fuck his friends

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  • Hire me to fuck his current girlfriend.

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  • Grow up.

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  • Phycopath much

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  • Blow his brother.

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    • That'll shake his core.

What Girls Said 14

  • By moving on and going on to live a life that was far better and more successful than when you were with him.

    I'm not even saying that to be morally correct either, THIS FUCKS WITH PEOPLE.

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  • Don't its as simple as that two wrongs don't make a right and you could destroy him for the rest of his life just because he hurt you which will bow over in a couple of weeks

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  • If you find the answer please tell it to me too. I need it

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  • You can’t. You can only spiritually destroy yourself by seeking revenge.

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  • By moving on and showing him what he lost.

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  • Move on and do things that make you happy.

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  • I don't think that's very constructive

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  • Do nothing.

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  • It’s best to move on.

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  • Lmao move on

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  • Fuck his best friend and send him a video

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  • some guy did to me because he thought i intentionally hurt him and it is not okay to do to anyone ever. just let it go. for your own health

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  • You get mental help.

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  • I wouldn't recommend it go get therapy like the other guy said

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