Do you unfollow him after a break up?

This one’s for the ladies. Do you unfollow him on all your social media after a break up, or is it only if it ends badly. And what are your reasonings for doing so. I usually do for a little while if I had strong feelings and then will sometimes refollow them once I’m ready to be friends (for some reason most of my exes want to stay friends). I don’t know if that’s normal. I just wanted to hear some of your takes on this subject? :)


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Most Helpful Guy

  • It depend on the whole situation. It depend on how he take the break-ups... if he is going to stalk you then it good idea to unfriend him. If he is not that low to stalk you and respect the breakups and you both decided to stay friends then why you want to unfriend him? Sadly most breakups didn't go well.

    You can refriend him later when you are ready.

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    • Do you think it’s weird to refriend them if you don’t talk anymore? I’m on the fence.

    • I don't think it will be weird if I was in his shoe. Again depend on the whole situation too.

Most Helpful Girl

  • If we ended on good terms and remained as friends then pm Facebook I would just block all posts of him from appearing on my newsfeed rather than blocking his profile. On snapchat I would just leave it and I don't have ig so I don't know what I would do there 🤔

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What Guys Said 5

  • I'm starting to regret being friends with my ex on social media, it seems that she is trying her best to make me jealous. But usually I never delete.

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    • This is why I unfollow most of the time because I feel that they instantly try to post things to make you jealous, or maybe it’s all in my head. I like to give it time and then come back when we’re both equally on good terms.

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    • If you need to keep her in your life I guess it makes sense not unfollowing her. Do pay attention if posts that aimed to you continue to occur and reevaluate how it's affecting you later then, perhaps it's all still too recent.

    • Yea if it doesn't get better with time I'll definitley re evaluate following her. Thanks :)

  • U will want to see each other on SM no matter what u will peak

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  • I don't have social media. All the failures are there.

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  • I am not a ladies.

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  • Move on.

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What Girls Said 18

  • Depends where your heart is at. I assume if things end bad you would dissapear off the earths face. If things were mutual its up to you how the relationship or terms are after. Is there a relationship? Me personally, believe an ex is to be left in the past. There is a reason they don't make it to your future.

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  • Usually I unfriend on Facebook as I feel it’s a little more intimate than other forms of social media. Instagram, Twitter, snapchat etc I wouldn’t unless it ended badly or they were just annoying in some way or other such as posting to make me jealous or get back at me.

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  • It depends on how we broke up, if it was easy and neither of us freaked out or anything then I would just leave it. If he freaked out, I'd unfollow him. And if I freaked out, I'd probably just unfollow him

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  • I normally take them social media for a while if not forever. No matter who broke up with you I don't want to see their posts and im sure they wouldn't want to see mine 😊

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  • Depends on the reason for breakup. My last relationship, the guy became somewhat controlling and clingy so I unfollowed him on everything and I have considered blocking his #. However other ex’s I’ve stayed friends with. If the relationship was unhealthy and I don’t plan on keeping in contact I will unfollow them.

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