This one’s for the ladies. Do you unfollow him on all your social media after a break up, or is it only if it ends badly. And what are your reasonings for doing so. I usually do for a little while if I had strong feelings and then will sometimes refollow them once I’m ready to be friends (for some reason most of my exes want to stay friends). I don’t know if that’s normal. I just wanted to hear some of your takes on this subject? :)
Do you unfollow him after a break up?
What Guys Said 6
It depend on the whole situation. It depend on how he take the break-ups... if he is going to stalk you then it good idea to unfriend him. If he is not that low to stalk you and respect the breakups and you both decided to stay friends then why you want to unfriend him? Sadly most breakups didn't go well.
You can refriend him later when you are ready.1
I am not a ladies.1
I don't have social media. All the failures are there.0
U will want to see each other on SM no matter what u will peak0
What Girls Said 19
If we ended on good terms and remained as friends then pm Facebook I would just block all posts of him from appearing on my newsfeed rather than blocking his profile. On snapchat I would just leave it and I don't have ig so I don't know what I would do there 🤔1
Depends where your heart is at. I assume if things end bad you would dissapear off the earths face. If things were mutual its up to you how the relationship or terms are after. Is there a relationship? Me personally, believe an ex is to be left in the past. There is a reason they don't make it to your future.1
It depends on how we broke up, if it was easy and neither of us freaked out or anything then I would just leave it. If he freaked out, I'd unfollow him. And if I freaked out, I'd probably just unfollow him1
Usually I unfriend on Facebook as I feel it’s a little more intimate than other forms of social media. Instagram, Twitter, snapchat etc I wouldn’t unless it ended badly or they were just annoying in some way or other such as posting to make me jealous or get back at me.2
I unfollow guys for sure. Makes no sense for me to tempt myself with information I don't need to know.1
Depends on the reason for breakup. My last relationship, the guy became somewhat controlling and clingy so I unfollowed him on everything and I have considered blocking his #. However other ex’s I’ve stayed friends with. If the relationship was unhealthy and I don’t plan on keeping in contact I will unfollow them.1
I would unfollow. I’m not always the bigger person.1
If it's ends badly I'd definitely unfollow them or I was the one hurt. If not, no I wouldn't1
There's a wide range of normal on this matter. Personally not friends with any ex as all previous relationships didn't end well, but I always found better for me to not have them around and 'haunting' new relationships...1
I normally take them social media for a while if not forever. No matter who broke up with you I don't want to see their posts and im sure they wouldn't want to see mine 😊1
I don't unfollow because I want to keep knowing about his life even though I can't do it from a close distance anymore..1
To be honest I wasn't going to unfollow my ex since he wasn't the type to post a lot so it would just be there. But he soon after the breakup he started posting about meeting his soulmate and such bullshit so I unfollowed. He came back 3 months later so I blocked0
If it ends badly, then yes. Seeing him makes me think of what we had and how much it hurts.1
Well I really only use Facebook as far as social media. But yes I do unfollow them/ unfriend them. I mean maybe some people are ok with their exes still being on their SM accounts but for me it's like why?0
yes i would unfollow1
It depends on how bad the relationship or breakup was. If it didn't end badly I didn't unfollow them.1
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