What positives have you gained from a break up? Experiences, personal improvements etc.
(Especially if you were the one who got dumped)
Most Helpful Girl
After repeatedly getting treated like worthless dirt from all my previous boyfriends, and getting exhausted from it, I changed my whole attitude. First boyfriend of 3 years left me because he said his GRANDPARENTS didn't like me, and weren't going to pay for his college if he didn't leave me. 2nd boyfriend of 3 years, wouldn't let me go grocery shopping with him because I have bad taste in groceries, wtf, and told me he hated my laugh. 3rd Boyfriend, cheated on me with this old hag who has 3 kids, and knocked her up on a one night stand, and THEN moved in with me thinking I would never find out he had a SON on the way...HA...4th boyfriend of 1 year broke up with me while we lived together, and never even moved out, and this is when I got the realitiy check of my life...Stop being a welcome mat for garbage. I started to be a heartless coldblooded bitch. And guess what, about a year later I met my husband and got married, and can be totally happy because the trashy men started to stay away from me, and I got a real man, with real hopes, and real dreams. I couldn't be happier!0