Most Helpful Girl
Easy, everyone has annoying habits. Just start to pay attention and look for those.
Knock her off the pedi stool you put her on
Most Helpful Guy
That's a tough one. It is hard to do and in some ways it really can't be done. The only way that comes to mind is for you to meet someone else, to develop deep feelings for someone and to be dating the other woman. Then the woman you see every day won't phase you that much. You have moved on and your heart and focus will than be somewhere else.