My girlfriend left me and I am devastated, how to heal?
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You may have dodged a bullet if she is that unstable, in debt and concerned about your earning potential. It sounds like there were some good things about her though, maybe you can ask her to sit down and have a conversation about it? Ask her to disclose all of her debt issues and see if you can help her get it under control. You definitely wouldn't want to marry someone who is out if control in this area, that could ruin your life.
What is the problem here? Do you really have little or no potential to earn a decent living and support a family? If so, you probably need to take steps to change that if you want to attract a good partner.
Or is she just in debt and expects to be treated like a princess and live in a mansion etc? If so let her be someone else's problem.
It's not true that you have no options etc, focus on yourself and try to improve yourself further. There are millions of single women out there. Don't focus on suicidal thoughts or "this miserable existence". These feelings will pass and you will find a way to move on
Tldr. I dont mean to be a dick but you were with her for three months, its not the end of the world, you barely knew her. Go to the titty bar, have some drinks a d forget about her
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