what are some best was to move on after you have been cheated on. how do you stop loving him? will you ever recover?
My boyfriend of 7 years has cheated on me for the past 7 years. I'm pissed I'm hurt I'm depressed and I barely eat. every day I try to forget about the past some days it works and i go on being the perfect girlfriend but i just dont want to do it anymore.
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That's a tough one. My first wife cheated on me and our relationship never survived. I was in my 20's at the time. I was crushed, but I was young and I did not have the emotional well being to deal with the collapse of my marriage. Honestly, I didn't date for a while which was a reaction to the emotional pain. But remember to always love yourself. My first wife was really a lousy person. She made decisions on her own behalf which did not reflect on me. No relationships are perfect, but I was monogamous and exclusive to her. Even though she was a cheater, I looked at myself critically about my own behavior. I looked at what worked and what didn't work in the relationship. Some of it was on me and I grew from the experience. There are no specific answers, but I learned to really love myself first. It's okay to love yourself warts and all. Since then I've remarried to a remarkable woman. Take care and good luck.0