My husband and i have been together a total of 4 years, and i have been in love with him since we first met almost 7 years ago. We have a daughter together and he is gone 3 weeks a month for work. I have struggled with fidelity for about a year or so, and though i haven't slept with anyone else yet i think about it on a daily basis. You see, my husband still deals with insecurities from past relationships but he takes them all out on me, spying on me, checking up on me and calling and texting me sometimes 30 times a day. It gets exhausting and im wondering if its even worth trying to be sympathetic and patient anymore when im not even sure if i really love who he has become.
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I think you should go see a counselor... y'all are hurting each other... I know that neither of you mean to and I know both of you care about the other so I would suggest counseling. some good friends of mine have an elderly couple that they hang out with on occasion to get encouragement from the elderly couple has been together for 60 years and they impart wise advice to my friends... A lot of your struggles will seem like minor things to people who have gone through them but they will know how to talk you through it better than a paid professional.0
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