He started to be busy every weekend, not have time for me and when I was him what happened he said nothing.. he would spend all this time with his female best friend. They share a tatoo together with their names and their relationship has always been way to close still she ja the one who brought us together. I have to add that he is addicted to cocaine and on weekends and marijuana and he was diagnosed with a lung tumor apparently which however was positive. So he pretends that the reason he ignored me for a month was the news about his health.. but instead of doing something about it all he did every weekend is go out without me and do excessive nights with alcohol and drugs with his best female friend and others.
Now he flew to his holiday home in the US and took female friend with him and did not even ask me to join he claims he wants to stop smoking and needs this time for himself. I am so very hurt and on top od all I found out I am pregant.. He did not even call me since there and just went from being crazy about me to not even wanting to talk to me to giving me mean answers when I message him. I did not tell him yet that I am pregnant since I know he is aggressive and will only ruin my pregnancy daily since he never wanted kids and this was unplanned.. I don't know if I should believe him about needing time for his health but he spends time with everyone but me since over a month and even now in holiday home is not alone. I feel I can't move on without knowing a reason... Did he just get bored after 6 month? How can someone change from one day to the next?