My boyfriend recently broke up with me. Around 2 weeks later I found out I was pregnant. I did what I thought was the right thing to do at the time and not keep the baby. So after about two months I have been having to go through the break up and the decision that I have made. I have now started to feel angry not only at him breaking my heart, but also at him having me make a decision like that. He was too busy with himself and wanting to go out and party and left me with all of this guilt. I didn't want to tell him at the time because I thought people would think I would be lying to get him back. What do I do should I keep it to myself forever or should I tell him sometime down the line when we start to build up contact again?
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I feel for you completely, my boyfriend dumped me a month after an abortion and just before my exams. I was/am so angry at this. I'd tell him, it would have been his child and he has the right to know both that you were pregnant but also to know that his insensitivity meant that you had to go through with this incredibly difficult situation. I know how hard it is to live with the guilt and I'm hoping that it honestly gets easier, it's been four months for me now and I'm still not close to a resolution.
I wish you all the best.1