I'm just so angry all the time and I just want him to be miserable, I just want him to sit and wallow in what a pathetic person he is. I've blocked him on fb, deleted his number, I don't ask about him and avoid places he could be, so it's not like he's constantly in my face for me to feel this. I just don't understand why this hatred and anger is still following me about when I'm trying so hard to move on and better myself, I'm not a nasty person so this is shocking me that I'm thinking like this. I've broke up before and not felt like this, is there any advice on how to move on?
Most Helpful Guy
I'm in the same position you're in but in my case it's with a few close friends who used me, backed talked me behind my back & literally abondened me
The hatred is mutual from me to you I can fully understand but in all honesty well never get over our anger in the long run let's be honest
In a scale from 1 to 10 in a few years where you'll have time to reflect on your anger & hatred it'll be on the lower scale where instead of anger it's just bitterness that's maybe a 5 on the scale? In my case I'm never going to be completely healed in my case but compared to when I got betrayed it's a 5 out of 10
You'll get over it somewhat in the long run not completely ever trust me2
Most Helpful Girl
I think, the best way to get back at an ex that did your wrong is showing him how Happy you are WITHOUT him. Right now, you're showing him the anger there is in your heart. If I were you, I would unblock him, and go to places he might be with friends. Show him how much fun you're having WITHOUT him.
You probably have unanswered questions as to why you guys broke up?