I met this guy, we had an instant connection. I felt like I knew him for ages, we've had a lot of things in common, he said multiple times how I'm the first person he could trust from the start. We've been together for 3 weeks and last 2 days he was distancing himself and I felt something wasn't right. I asked him what's going on and we talked and he said that he doesn't know what to do because he can picture us together, it feels good to be with me, he feels comfortable around me but that he thinks the timing isn't right. The thing is, he got dumped few months ago after 3 years and even though he said he hates his ex and would never get back to her, after all she's done, I know he would and that he's still attached to her. He said he hates himself that he turned out to be just another guy to pass in my life and that he wants to hang out with me and keep me in his life if I want that too. That was two days ago and he didn't contact me which applies that it was a lie. Now, I'm not sure if he really meant what he said or it was just his nice way of dumping me and I'm really sad because I really liked the guy and thought we could actually have something nice. So, how do I move on and stop thinking about him and what would be if the timing was right or if was he just a bit honest or everything was a lie.. I have to study a lot but I can't because he bounces in my head all the time. So, how do I keep him out of my head and freaking move on? I could really use some help or advice..
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Basically, keep moving. I know it feels like you won't ever get over the emotional attachment, and its true that a part of that may always linger, but it will fade. You will fond someone who actually values you, and is just as crazy for you as you are for them. Thats when you know. Until then, if you get knocked down, just pick yourself up and keep moving.2