I still miss my ex, a lot. We never even really had a break up or anything. He had to leave to attend boot camp and necessary military training, we agreed to take a break so neither of us are held back from our opportunities. He wasn't the first guy I felt strong feelings for, but he was the only one I've ever had such strong emotion and connection to. I've never had a problem with missing people, I grow up and move on, but this just feels different. When he was here I felt like it helped give me purpose to push past my depression and work on myself and my life, while he's gone though, I just feel worthless. I feel like there's nobody to impress and I miss the way I actually got nervous when he even held my hand and took my some place I never knew about before. It doesn't make any sense, it really doesn't. I miss him too much it feels like, my life is about him and I now. Not just me.
Am I missing him too much?
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I recommend not placing your “mental heath motivation” on another person. Realise that the drive to better yourself should be for you to love whomever you please, and not to get better to love a specific person. I’m sure he misses you, but try to focus on your own health so you don’t end up missing him too much and spiralling down.0
I'm sorry hun, I'm sure he is missing you too. Maybe write letters to him and send it to him. If he can't recieve them, still write them and keep them until he can recieve them. He'll be happy to at least know you're thinking of him. Make like a scrapbook of pictures of your daily life or places you both went to or shared or your favorite things. Or if a scrapbook is too old school maybe a picture book or whatever the digital form would be.0
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