My boyfriend of five and half years wants to talk to me today after a week break, I know he wants to break up because he deleted all of our pictures on social media. Need device on how to cope and how to handle/what to say during a breakup. I’m still confused as to why since the relationship was going so well, I’m 98% sure that there is another girl he’s most likely pursuing right after too... I don’t understand and I’m so hurt. Everything reminds me of him, we did so many things together as a couple..
Most Helpful Guy
... I've been in your shoes I went to propose to a girl after 5 years of dating last year I was at college like 4 hours away from her... trailer after I proposed she told me about this guy that children sing and how she just couldn't do that to me. a little less than a year later she was pregnant three months after that she was married... I was really frustrated and angry... But there is no where to focus my anger I noticed that I started seeking attention of from women... which is not in my character after while I realized what I was doing. I took a vacation and hid in the woods for a couple weeks to get my mind straight... And to take out some anger. there's this whole time I've been praying and dealing with my emotions talking with God... Which was different then when I was talking to women one way I'm feeling up the pain just trying to get somewhere that the pain didn't hurt... while when I started working on it that's when things started to change for the better. it took a lot of time almost 2 years before I could actually date without using the girl and I hated that about myself... I'm a happy-go-lucky person again but dating is hard and it gets me down sometimes. if you need to talk I'll be here... I hope that helps.1
Most Helpful Girl
i'd write down your thoughts. you don't want to be a mess. in a situation like that, you want to look amazing and be composed. be in control. write down everything you're thinking, questioning, and pick out the important points for discussion.
so tell him how you viewed the relationship and tell him you'd like to learn from this experience and the best way to do that is to understand his point of view and when/why his view on the relationship changed.
before you meet him, focus on your breathing. listen to calming music. good luck.0