I'm going to be honest here. I'm not the one in the LTR. I could potentially be the other girl who's being "lined up". He's a friend of mine and our bond has gotten stronger and closer over the last year.
Their LTR has been on the rocks for a while. I REALLY like him... a LOT. I'm pretty sure he's interested in me too. Neither one of us has made a move and I won't as long as he's still in a relationship. Once that's officially over we'll see what happens.
I should also note that I'm not sitting around waiting. I'm still dating other men, but a big part of me wants this man. We just clicked right away and I feel starting as friends is a bonus.
I just wonder if the connection we share might be enough to eventually persuade him to leave his current relationship since it's so rocky.
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I think in a way that you should drop hints that there is a better woman out there for him that cares about him and that his current relationship isn't going anywhere, which is rich coming from me because I usually hate 'hints'. He shouldn't be in this relationship anymore, it seems like he knows this but he doesn't know how to get out of it. Don't tell him you like him or anything, just tell him that he seems unhappy and he should fix it and tell him that if he needs someone to be there for him, you'll be there.0