My ex and I were together for about a year and then just out of the blue he told me he didn’t love me anymore. ( I couldn’t see any signals that he was going to do this)
He said that it was because of school but I really do think it was because I wouldn’t have sex with him; because thats what I was raised to not do until married.
Did this turn him away?
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Very likely. He waited for a year, and lost his patience. For guys sex is more important than for girls. But this is actually your gain. He should have waited as many years as necessary, and as you mentioned marriage, you made it clear that you want something stable and long term. Like... If he waits you will be always and only his. Well, his loss, not yours. He would have walked out on you with kids or other difficulties later on, cause he proved it to you that he won't stick around if it is not his way. I totally dig this sort of commitment you have, and even had a virgin girlfriend once. She said she was not not ready, don't pressure her if I stay with her, walk away and go to some slut if I want only pussy. I never ever pressured her because I loved her. Seven months later on Christmas Eve she by herself decided that it is time, and I was more nervous than she was by that time. If you choose to love somebody, to truly love, you love them, as they are, fat, skinny, virgin, whatever.0