I don’t usually fit in. I’m very different and people don’t like that.
Even before I had piercings and dyed my hair I still did not fit in.
I am now in college and am having trouble finding where I belong. How do I find those people? How do I get liked? How do I get invited to parties and asked out?
(I know... I’m quite the loser😅😞)
Most Helpful Guy
Be friendly. Talk to a lot of people, but only if you're really interested (don't fake it). Find people that you like. Piercings and weird hair shouldn't be a problem, as long as it's not really extreme.1
Most Helpful Girl
I've never really fit in either and was never part of the "in crowd". In school I had a small circle of two to three friends; though we've gone our separate ways, I'll still friends with all these people... that's more than I can say for the larger cliques.
As an adult, and as I said, going our separate ways since reaching adulthood, I'm more or less an involuntary loner or social outcast. But you know what? I'd rather be an individual than blend in with the rest of the same boring crowd.2