I am currently in a relationship with a man who works out of town. Part time he is gone and part of the time he is home. When he is home he and I do just about everything together, but there are times when he just gets up and leaves for no reason and doesn't call me until a few days later, although I am upset and hurt I continue to talk to him and we I argue with him about it, then he is gone to work again for a long time. When we do get a chance to talk when he is away we don't talk for a very long time. I wait for him to get home and when he does its not what I expect. He criticizes me about what I do with my life, from my job, education level, finances but the thing is I know I am doing nothing wrong with my life except trying to better myself & life. I sometimes feel its not worth waiting for him as I do get lonely, but then I sometimes do feel like waiting but feel as though when he gets home it will be waiting for disappointment? Its like is this worth it or isn't it? I don't know what to do anymore
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I feel for you. I'm sad that many of us suffer a lot in the heart matters. The first person you must be honest with is yourself. If the relationship isn't working and there's a lot of trouble dealing with it. Is for you to say whether to accept that treatment or not.
You see... I myself have done this in my life. I've accepted almost any kind of treatment such as lying, bad attitude, and even being replaced by a party-life from my last SERIOUS relationship. I'm done with it. Don't accept any BS in your life.0