Most Helpful Guy
Well, full discloser. I'm not one who thinks a couple seeing each others phone is some horrific breach of etiquette. I'm usually open in a relationship, if we've been together for a bit and I'm in love and committed, I don't care if she sees or look at my phone. There's nothing in there I want to hide. I'd be mad if she changed things in my phone or ruined things and deleted things. That would make me mad. I'm sure I'd get over it if she were drunk and it wasn't intentional meanness.
In your story or situation, what jumps out to me the most is "she was drunk". I'm not really big on relationships with those who drink a lot and routinely get drunk as if it is normal healthy behavior.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah eventually I would0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE