My husband of 5 years, together for 13 years, had an affair with someone I classed as a friend/accquatance. I feel so angry, lost, confused. I feel I need to get away and would like to do something scary and exciting in the hope I get more independance and find myself, like go to Europe by myself. Thoughts?
I would need to borrow some money but I have always been responsible and that hasn't gotten me very far in life. I haven't figured out yet if I'm leaving my husband
- Yes, go to EuropeVote A
- No, stay at homeVote B
Most Helpful Guy
Fuck that asshole piece of shit. Go to Europe find yourself, treat yourself dont cheat yourself. He's out having affairs and being unloyal fuck that hook up with as many men as u want. Go have sex anywhere and have sex with anyone u want to. Definitely go to Europe a scenery change and new environment sounds exciting2
Most Helpful Girl
Go, and clear your thoughts... be free try to have fun and not worry. Let the answers come to you. Also arrange for lots of things to do, sightseeing, nature trails, reservations, the whole nine yards. Go and have your "me" time. Then think long and hard bout if you can really forgive and move on. If you think you can and believe he won't do it again... stay. You know yourself better than anyone... if you thing it will always bother you and you'll always see him as guilty or you don't think he's worth the trouble of it all... run for the hills.1