Is it really embarassing to be a virgin?
What Guys Said 22
For some yes, it's especially hard when friends and family make fun of you for being one.
You'll need a tough skin to not let it get to you. Accepting the fact you are a virgin and that it is okay because you have not found the person to share that intimacy.
There was a time when I thought that someone would just come in to my life and I would just lose it. But that's not the reality, we have to pursue an intimate relationship or someone that's willing to have sex casually; I don't condone it but it is a possibility that I want to include.
So for me yes it was embarrassing and it can get harder as you get older too because it's looked down upon after a certain age. Similar to have not been in an intimate relationship.1
Why does it matter? If someone measures their self worth on how many times they've had sex, they've got issues.3
Here’s the thing... if you tell some women you’re a virgin they might laugh or they could be J. Both are bad for you so if you’re a virgin you’d be wise to keep it to yourself & people you trust 1000%.
Most guys would be embarrassed to admit being a virgin I think. Unless you’re in a cult like that Josh Duggar guy was when he was fingering his underage virgin sisters to keep from having to do ungodly sex with strangers.1
Not at all!1
Absolutely not, especially in this day and age. I understand waiting for marriage could be a little old fashion for some people, but it's worth the wait. To others I say at least use the 6 month rule. Get to know, trust, rely, and commit to the person during that time and then explore physically. 90% of relationships end within the first 3 months so it's worth investing that time if you're serious.1
No I was a virgin until I was 19 it's all good have sex, don't, it doesn't really matter.1
Nope. Be yourself and don't let anyone step in your for doing so.
Shouldn't be at all. Hell, if I could go back I'd gladly have stayed a virgin until I was with someone I cared about, instead of just doing it to be over it.1
No, it’s something you should be proud of!1
I'm a virgin
I'm not embarrassed (rather proud to be so)1
It depends on why one is a virgin. I'm a virgin because, I haven't found anyone trustworthy enough.1
No, i use to think it was when i was a teenager, i have been with a gross amount of girls. Looking back at it now, i wish i was a virgin.1
If your friends are shallow dickheads, then maybe.3
no its actually very attractive to sleep with one1
Nope. It's only bad if you make it define you. If you want to wait, wait.1
Not at all. Good for you1
No it's not no one should be embarrassed of been virgin1
not at all
No who said1
Only if you're a guy0
I'm also virgin.
What Girls Said 3
No it is not1
hell no, im a virgin n PROUD yo1
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