i was with my girlfriend for 2 year, I loved this girl man. we broke up and it was bad. she thought I cheated on her so she got with 4 guys from my baseball team over a period of time. it was hard dealing with this because I had to play with them like everyday... it crushed me.
now I start dating again and I can't seem to continue to like a girl. I will see a girl be like damn she's hot, talk to her, date her, then like a week later be like ahhhh I don't want this... its been happening since I was a junior in high school now I'm a soph. in college and its still the same, and I can't stand it. does anyone know how to get over this? I don't miss my ex anymore or think about her that much at all. I want a relationship and I don't get scared of it I just can't seem to continue to like the girl and its getting around that I'm a player and I don't want that at all. please help!
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well, it must have been hard for you hun, but this is the sign that your not over her, she was in denial so she thought the best way to hurt you was to date/sleep with your closest people the ones you have to live with on a day to day basis, if you know you didn't cheat on her then your in the clear, maybe you need some closure, call her meet up with her and tell her its officially over, maybe you don't think its totally over. You need to be persistent with your relationships, when you think straight out that you can't deal with a girlfriend then think of all the great things about the girl you have, stick with it and it will work out OK. maybe being single for a while would be good for you insted of rushing into it give it time :)0