I have 8 year old son because when I was immigrant in my 20s some older guy got me pregnant. I have to remind my boyfriend of this so he understands how much this man screwed up my life and how I need a responsible man to save me and my son.
And you know what my boyfriend say to me?
Maria, I need to hear you admit that you are responsible for your son being born and stop being so angry. You can choose to accept your life so you can move on in life happily. I accept you. But you didn't use birth control or condoms. And you picked that man to have sex with for months. Just admit that and forgive yourself. I'm tired of hearing the victim story every night at bedtime.
What is this unsympathetic psychopathic attitude to me? Why does he want me to lower myself yo him and feel guilty by saying it is all my fault? He is so judgmental.
That stupid man who get me pregnant had more life experience and should have known better. He needs to be erased from my sons life and be adopted by a man that marries me. All get from him is $850 month. And I had to use a lot of it to get tummy tucks and breast implants to helpy self esteem because he wrecked my body with the pregnancy.
Most Helpful Guy
Well seems like your not taking responsibility for your actions and blaming everyone around you. You could have said no but you didn't. You could have had an abortion. But you decided to keep the kid. So it's all your choices. And now your playing the sympathy card. Which is not right on your part so I'd say your boyfriend is right. You need to take responsibility for your actions and stop complaining and trying to be a victim.0
Most Helpful Girl
Well I don't think this was THAT nasty. I mean, maybe he is just boring of listening to this story all day. It was 8 years ago girl ! Come on ! Now you have a son, this son is there, he is real. You better take care of him instead of thinking about his father. I kink of agree with your partner, you can't say you're the victim. You agreed to have sex with a man without condom or anything, you are 50% guilty.0
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