He said that it’s going to be sad when I learn the hard way what an amazing guy he was and that I “threw away” a “good” guy over my own bullshit.
Yet, I was the one who dumped him for being controlling, having a bad temper, and always humiliating me in public over my eating habits. I was miserable and depressed in the relationship because of the way he was treating me. Even with all that, he expected me to be happy with him.
He was the first boyfriend I ever had and now I’m wondering if this could be true...
Most Helpful Guy
Of course he said that, that's what they all say. Ignore it. You had your reasons for breaking up with him and from what you've said, they sound like very valid reasons. He's just angry, he thinks he's got nothing wrong with him. Forget about it. You can do A LOT better than him based on how you've described him.1
Most Helpful Girl
Do not believe what he says. I was in an abusive relationship when I was 15. He made me believe for so long that I would regret it and that I’m not worth it for anybody. Well I got out of that thinking and I dated a lot experienced good guys and bad ones. Part of life. But that experience alone made me stronger. Because there’s guys were much better then him. They didn’t choke me, they didn’t try to break my wrist, and they sure as hell didn’t tell me no one is going to want you like he did. Haha well now I have an amazing guy who treats me like a goddess and is showing me what love really is.1