my girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago. I've been having a really hard time trying to get over it and last night my best friend tells me there's going to be a party this weekend with a lot of single girls, unfortunately my ex is going to be there too. I want to go, but I don't think I could stand seeing her hook up with another guy. what should I do?
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If you do decide to go, my strong advice is: NO ALCOHOL, and probably no caffeine either. Your emotions will be right on the surface, and drinking will only make you lose control of them. I was in a similar situation, and my heart was racing. I was so glad I didn't drink that night.
Also, I think it would be great if you could take a cute female friend for support, someone who understands your situation. That way, you could meet other singles, but if you ever feel vulnerable or lonely during the party, you can have a great time with your friend. Having a great time will make you feel stronger and more confident. I know this is a tough situation. Good luck!2