I've come to believe that men say exactly what they mean, no hidden meanings, however every situation is different so there's no real way to know for sure. I've been pondering over a guy who has caused me more emotional damage than anyone before and he just will not tell me the truth as to why he hurt me so I can have some kind of closure and not carry the baggage into my next relationship.
I've calmly and assertively attempted to express how I feel and he refuses to listen or even hear me. We've both gotten so frustrated with each other that it reached a boiling point where we've insulted one another, took cheap shots at each other and I don't think there's anyway to resolve it. We've said so many hurtful things to each other, but he knows I have feelings for him. The hurtful things he's said to me, I don't know if its just dislike for me or if I struck a couple of nerves. Why won't he tell me verbally that he doesn't like me so I know for certain its a done deal?
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Getting closure or admittance from a guy who refuses in the first place, is pointless. You are only wasting your time. Some men tell you the truth from the beginning, I'd suggest you'd date men like that. It's not hard, since you are looking for men who reveal rather than hide.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE