Why does my boyfriend need to still talk with his ex and sometimes hang out?...Do you think I should say something?..
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Really depends heavily on why they're hanging out.
They have a child together, in which case, he should defiantly talk to her at times.
They had a 'clean' split and, even though they aren't together, are still friends. In which case it could be appropriate (to some degree) they still speak
The split is 'fresh' and there's still angst or perhaps legal reasons to talk. Such as "who's getting the dog" or "screw you it's all your fault".
Look the best answer her is for you to talk to your Boyfriend about it. For me, all my ex's have been clean breaks. Some I don't talk to anymore. Some I talk to 'rarely' (say every 6 months or so). And one ex is actually my GF's best friend, so I speak to and see her quite regularly, even to the point in going out with her at times (to the movies for instance).
It all comes down to context. But if it's worrying you, then it's time to talk to the Boyfriend about it. Don't start with an attack, just say that you're wondering why he still needs to talk to her, and that you can understand if he needs to, but that you hope in time it will pass (something like that).0