I currently have a long distance relationship with a girl I thought I really loved... No I didn't think to, I did. I loved her so much. I wanted her to be the mother to my children. She meant so much to me and in a way she kinda does..
but get this..
She treats me like a damn slave, I had to leave my family, parents and siblings because she doesn't like them. I am living with my grandpa and I have to work so I can support her when she moves down here. And when I try to have some "me time" she gets mad at me and accuses me of cheating. I love football and I watch my favorite team when they come on and because they get more attention than her that day I have to apologize. I just am no longer happy in where I am. I feel trapped and I just don't feel like I am in love anymore..
Here is the problem. She is kinda not all that up there in the head. She has told me on several occasions that If I were to leave her she would slit her wrists. And I don't doubt her at all. I want to end things so badly but I don't want to be responsible for a suicide. Please please help me. I have no where else to turn.. Her parents are drunks who are sue happy so they can be rich and buy booze and drugs. So talking to them is out of the question,
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Listen to yourself! You know that you are unhappy, but what you don't realize is that you cannot control the future. None of us have a crystal ball that says everything is A-ok.. For crying out loud, she could slit her wrists because of your "cheating via a television"
Simply put, I know where you are coming from - but you can't beat yourself up for her stupidity. If she wants to endanger her life and ruin yours, it's best that you just cut ties with her and live the remainder of your sanity as best as you can.
I STRONGLY ADVISE - that if you "don't doubt her" to cut her wrists: That you probably should make a pact with yourself to never speak with her again. She sounds like drama / issues / problems / negativity ... All those things can only bring you down even further, if you let them in your life.
Sometimes women aren't as "dramatic" as we picture them to be. Be sure not to put this weight (of your current gf's drama) on the shoulders of future prospective women.
Take care, I hope you get out of this relationship sooner rather than later.
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