my boy friends of 8 years cheated on me and I have been trying hard to forgive him because I love him and I have messed up a long time ago to and he forgave me but its just the way he did it that I can't get over . first of all when I cheated I new I was wrong and I was very hurt by what I did and I told him about it right away .
but when he did it to me he didn't tell me I found it out by the girl texting him at 2am one night . I grab the phone from him cause I new no one texts him that late I new something was up . I called the number and the girl told me that she and him just hung out a few times and they had sex 3 times. then I asked where she met him from and she told me on a chat line . when I asked him about it he said he met here at the store and not in a chat line but I don't believe him at all then he told me they only did it two times and it was in the same day but I don't believe that either . she had no reason to lie to me and I no she didn't any way he tell me he is sorry and wants me but it hurt so bad and what is really bad is I don't no if he is really sorry or not and I no he is not telling me everything I even found a naked pic of this girl she sent him in his email to but it was from the time he cheated . how do I tell if he is really sorry ? when I want to talk about it he don't and just tells me ( I told you I was sorry now stop it ) maybe I should just leave but we been together so long what could I do and do you think he is sorry?
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You should have a hard time forgiving him. It's one thing if it were a kiss, but it's sex on numerous occasions. Who knows if she has STD's? If you forgive him, that's just permission to do it over and over. Guy's don't change. I promised myself I'd never cheat on the girl I loved, ever. Opportunity arose one night to hookup with the big boobed freckled blond from the first floor.. and I did. It hurt me inside after for awhile, but I still had the capacity to do it. I am a nice guy, with no self control for sex. That makes me a jerk.0
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