do you my question is if you have a boyfriend and their x wife keeps texting and calling them while your sitting there and your boy friend says she is bipolar and drinks a lot and that most the time she just wants someone to talk to he won't answer the phone when i am around then he says they been divorce since 2005 and she has called and text him all the time he says he does not want her back nothing to worry about me and him have been together about a month we got in an argument the other day because she kept calling and talking he I said get your number change he said no because he has had this number for a long long time i got mad then he said something smart like if I want to I will call her back right now that's my x wife since that happen a day ago ago I can't hardly kiss him or any thing I said tell her to stop calling he said if he does anything she will lie on him and have him arrested because the police around here took her side before when she lied and he got lock up they have no kids together
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How long have you been dating him for?
How long have they been married for?
In all honesty, I think you should just have some trust in him and if not in him then in your relationship. You need to realize that this is a woman of his past, he is always going to have a piece of her and she is always going to have a piece of him. It's undeniable and unchangeable. The bipolar and alcohol thing maybe alittle over dramatic since you (i'm guessing) and I (obviously) have never met this crazy alcoholic bipolar ex wife before. You should give him the benefit of the doubt, I don't think he's necessarily cheating on you but there is a lot of information not provided in this thread you started.
At least the man respects you and doesn't answer her phone calls when he's with you. If he was still with her or was still married to her, SHE would have that importance in his life and he would answer that phone call each time. But he doesn't, so I think you should give him the benefit of the doubt. And if anything, get him to put a restraining order on her. If he does that, she has power in "lying" and having him arrested and put in jail. I don't know where you live but that sounds like bullsh*t to me. haha.0