OK my ex and I broke up two years ago and he still has feelings for me. He's been texting or IMing me on Facebook that past few weeks trying to argue with me. He's so mad at me because I never gave him second chance my my two previous bfs I did. The reason I never gave him a second chance was because he was so worried about a rumor that he said his ex's BFF was going to tell me. It freaked me out. He broke up with me because of this stupid rumor. I wanted to give him a second chance so bad but it still scares me. He's a good guy, he really is. My current boyfriend and I have been together almost a year now and I'm very happy with him. I still think about my ex because I do miss talking to him and I want him to be happy. But I told him this arguing has to stop because it's been almost two years. I just don't know what to do. I sent him a message on Facebook a week or so ago and he hasn't talked to me since because we argued again that night about the whole not giving him a second chance. I know after we broke up I tried talking to him at school because I knew he was hurting so bad. Apparently he's still hurting. What do I do?
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Im not sure what you can do if you don't feel the same as he is, the reason he is upset is cause he loves you so much. If all you want to be is friends with the guy then I advise no communication for a long period of time in the hope he moves on and then maybe he can be your friend. On the other hand if deep down your feelings for him are deeper which I think they might be well then this ain't fair on your current boyfriend.
When a girl won't give you a second chance I can tell you it hurts especially when you know she has done so for other idiot men in the past !0