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Im not sure what you can do if you don't feel the same as he is, the reason he is upset is cause he loves you so much. If all you want to be is friends with the guy then I advise no communication for a long period of time in the hope he moves on and then maybe he can be your friend. On the other hand if deep down your feelings for him are deeper which I think they might be well then this ain't fair on your current boyfriend.
When a girl won't give you a second chance I can tell you it hurts especially when you know she has done so for other idiot men in the past !0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE